Two Sides of Coin

Like a coin, I think every person also has two different sides.
Good and bad, feminine and masculine, evil and angel, whatever you want to name it.
Two sides of his/her personality which are totally different one to the other.

Sometimes, like a coin, one side cannot be seen by the other.
Some people can only see one side of mine, but not the other.
Unconsciously I show different side of mine to different people. But sometimes happens the other way around. To particular people I only want to show a side of mine. Often, the side that I show is the side that I think it could fulfil other’s need or expectation.

I believe, not many people are able to see both sides of one person, even if he/she’s your partner, husband/wife, your closest friend, your child, or your beloved one, a person that you meet everyday every minute.
It will need a huge courage from both: you and that person.

From yourself, if you want to know a person completely, at least you should prepare yourself to have the courage to face the reality - that you will probably find that the person you thought you really know, has totally different side that you could never imagine -, and the courage to accept this person as he/she is, completely - not only to accept him/her when he/she’s so fitted to you, but also when he/she’s different from your expectation.

As a person who has 2 different sides, I will need also a courage to open myself to other. And let them see me as I am.
As I said above, not so many people are able to see both sides of one person, and the same situation also applies here. Not so many people have the courage to open his/her two sides to other person. Most of them are afraid. Afraid of rejection, afraid of hurting others.

I think I will do this.
Trying to open myself as I am, and trying to see other person completely.
I know, in every action there will always be risks.
Here, there are risk to be rejected, and risk that I cannot accept the person as he/she is.
Anyway, life now is about taking risks. It’s not only about making choices anymore.
I take it, or I will loose it..