Forgive

Man: "You don't want to know the detail of what i did."

Woman: 

"If you want me to forgive you, I need to know what I'm forgiving you for.

Where were you .. what did you do .. did you do that.. ?

You answer all those questions then we can talk about forgiveness."

(from one episode of the Good Wife)

Would you dare enough to tell someone you've really hurt about the detail of what you did? Before or after you ask for forgiveness?

We might think that we'll hurt that person even more by doing that, but what if in the contrary you'll actually help him/her to finally forgive you completely? 

*I might have found my answer why I'm still having hurt and anger inside, it's because I don't know what I'm forgiving him for..* *sigh*